

The connection with this girl wasn't as good as the previous one, tho we'd been messaging for 4 days (same 1 exchange per day rhythm), the convo was only getting started. She didn't address the fact that she hadn't responded and would, my guess is, not have responded had I not revived the conversation.ĭo you think my message there was too long? I'll condense it to the most important part this time: It's such a shame that we live so far apart, or did you just leave for holiday and normally live here?"Īfter that message she responded again within 30 mins answering or commenting on everything from the previous long message and then saying at the end "Write on, I like to read :)"

Around 2 PM the next day I sent a very brief message saying: "Did I overdo it a bit with the text? :) Sorry got caught up in the conversation. We might say that we love to argue about it with a zeal equal to that of book lovers arguing over whether or not Harry. We'd been messaging in that manner for 4-5 days and she'd always respond to me within 30 mins, but that changed after this message: First, on IRC and Internet forums, as well as on social media apps like Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram, where the focus is public posting, PMs allow users to. short-form website content is of those endless marketing debates. Because I'm so busy, I usually send a message in the morning and then respond to her response the next morning. I'd been messaging with this girl for a bit, I thought we had a really nice connection, similar interests, similar personalities, it seemed we were getting on great. I've taken pics of a couple of examples, with the text blanked out (I know it's silly, but I'm paranoid about privacy), let me know whether you think these messages were too long. My sample size is too small to tell whether it's really related to the length of the message, or whether these girls just happened to decide to ghost me at that moment for some other reason, but I wanted to get your guys' impressions. I do fairly well with messaging in online dating and I'd say a high % of my conversations go well, but I've gotten the impression that sometimes when I send a longer message it puts girls off. A browser extension that encrypts your communications with many websites that offer HTTPS but still allow unencrypted connections.
